Girlfriends are not an expense.

Believe it or not, some women don't want you for your money.

But some do. Forgive them, Lord. They know not what they do.

I've told you that children don't necessarily cost money. Nobody freaked out. Not to my face, anyway.

And I said children's private education doesn't necessarily cost much money. (And very little of your own.) Nobody freaked out.

Now I'm saying "girlfriends don't cost money."

Someone will now flip out about this. Because they don't know about this kind of stuff:

Seeing, they don't see it. Hearing, they don't hear or believe it.

Your #1 job is to have faith. Then everything else magically falls into place. Over time. Over ten or twenty years, really, but that time is going to pass anyway.

You must be more alpha.

"Don't listen to women. Look at who they f--k." - Owen "Tyler" from Real Social Dynamics

Women think they know who they want. They don't. They don't even know who they date, then end up with five narcissists in a row.

Some gold-diggers turn pro and work together as a team. (But not necessarily as a tag team.)

Some see a men as a string of ATMs to cash in on.

God will provide.

You believe it or you don't. (It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy when you do.)

Even if you don't want to pay to raise all your 20 newborn white babies, tons of parents want to adopt the little white baby you've made. (I wish I'd thought of that 20 years ago.)

 

Or you can trust that God will provide.

"Look at the birds of the air: They do not sow or reap or gather into barns—and yet your Heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?"

Even many Christians don't initially believe children (even the children your youth) will be a blessing, like arrows in the hands of a warrior. But as their family grows, they see how pervasive and misleading the anti-child propaganda has really been.

The worldly, godless, faithless and unbelieving will easily fall to deception and be destroyed. But those who reject the world's ways, like Noah and his family will be saved.

It's as true today as it was then.

Without God, you can do nothing. With God, all things are possible.